August 09 , 2026
Kerala High Court Holds Unjustified Demand for Separate Residence and Prolonged Separation Can Amount to Matrimonial Cruelty
Legal Issue
Whether the husband's allegations against the wife—particularly her refusal to return to Dubai unless provided a separate two-bedroom residence away from his parents, her failure to communicate directly with him, and the prolonged separation between the parties—constituted matrimonial cruelty under Section 13(1)(ia) of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955, warranting dissolution of marriage.
Brief Facts
The parties married on 14 May 2015 and moved to Dubai shortly thereafter, where the husband was employed as an Electrical Engineer. During the wife's seventh month of pregnancy, she returned to Kerala and subsequently gave birth to their daughter. The husband alleged that despite repeated requests, she refused to return to Dubai unless he arranged a separate two-bedroom residence and ensured that she would not have to live with his parents. He also alleged that she stopped communicating with him directly and that attempts to resume cohabitation failed. He initially instituted proceedings for restitution of conjugal rights but subsequently withdrew them after the matrimonial relationship deteriorated further. The Family Court rejected his petition for divorce, finding that there was no serious matrimonial dispute apart from interference by the husband's mother.
Court's Reasoning
The Division Bench found the evidentiary record inconsistent with the wife's defence that she had been subjected to ill-treatment by the husband and his mother. The recorded telephone conversation between the wife and the husband's father, which she admitted was her own voice, substantially undermined her allegation of mistreatment. The Court also relied upon the recorded conversation between the husband and the wife's brother regarding the conditions for her return to Dubai. Although the wife's brother was not examined, the wife did not dispute the genuineness of the recording and was evasive regarding its contents. The Court therefore found the husband's evidence credible and held that the wife's insistence on living separately from the husband's parents was established on the evidence. The Court then applied the principle that a demand by a spouse for a separate residence away from the other spouse's family, without sufficient justification, can constitute matrimonial cruelty. On the facts, the wife had failed to establish a valid reason for insisting upon such separate residence. The Court further took into account the parties' approximately nine years of separation. Although desertion had not independently been pleaded as a ground for divorce, the Court relied on Deepak Bose v. Shrabonee Bose (2022 SCC OnLine All 1967), where prolonged desertion and separation were recognised as capable of constituting mental cruelty under Section 13(1)(ia). Thus, the prolonged breakdown in cohabitation was relevant not as an independent ground of desertion, but as an additional circumstance demonstrating matrimonial cruelty.
Judgment
The High Court allowed the matrimonial appeal, set aside the Family Court's judgment dismissing the divorce petition, and dissolved the marriage by a decree of divorce on the ground of matrimonial cruelty under Section 13(1)(ia) of the Hindu Marriage Act. No order as to costs was made.
Legal Significance
The decision reinforces that an unjustified insistence on separate residence from the husband's family may amount to matrimonial cruelty, depending on the surrounding circumstances and evidence. It also recognises that prolonged separation may be considered as a circumstance contributing to mental cruelty even where desertion has not been specifically pleaded as an independent ground, following the reasoning in Deepak Bose v. Shrabonee Bose. The case ultimately turns on the cumulative assessment of the wife's conduct, the absence of sufficient justification for her refusal to resume cohabitation, and the prolonged failure of the matrimonial relationship.
Link to Official Judgement here
Case Title
Nimeesh Kunhiraman v. Rathna Dehannath Kottarath
Case Number
Mat. Appeal No. 308 of 2022
Court
High Court of Kerala at Ernakulam
Bench
Justice Sathish Ninan and Justice P. Krishna Kumar
Date of Judgment
29 July 2026